Going “natural” is more than just your hair

By Dr. Phoenyx Austin posed the question “Natural Hair: Just Hair Today- Or Here To Stay?” on Curly Nikki’s blog today.

My answer to her is that it’s difficult to go natural as a fad because “natural” is so much more than just what you do to your hair. Those who go into it thinking it’s a phase will learn quickly that it’s much too time consuming and intricately tied to other aspects of one’s life for it to be so. From my perspective, going “natural” forces you to reevaluate everything: what you eat, what types of bad habits you have, how you take care of your skin, how you maintain your health, and so forth.

Speaking of maintaining one’s overall health, I’ve started including Green Vibrance in my diet. I, thankfully, don’t know the true taste of butt water. However, this comes as close to it as I can possibly imagine. It tastes better when put into a smoothie, but mixing it with plain water is disgusting. Oh, the things we do for good health.

I just started taking it a week or so ago so I can’t confirm if it’s effective. I do know that I don’t feel as tired and worn-down as I usually do – a consequence of suffering from iron deficiency anemia all my life.

I’ll keep you posted on how it’s working. Eventually I’ll post the list of vitamins that it includes.

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Kettlebell Exercises for Idiots

It’s been 10 days since my last post. That’s like 10,000 years in the world of blogging. I did make it clear that I can be a procrastinator. What? How’s it my fault you didn’t read the ‘About Me’ section? Okay, okay, can we be friends now? Phew, thanks. I hate it when we fight.

So, although I’m procrastinating with my writing, I haven’t been doing the same with my running. I’ve been really good about staying motivated. It’s nice that my hubby has decided to join me.

Anyway, now I’ve going to add core strength training to my routine by trying Kettlebell exercises. I recently learned about it from the lovely blogger Hairscapades.  She’s got some kick butt abs. I searched Kettlebell exercises for idiots (well, maybe not that exact search term) and found a beginner lesson on Youtube.

Now all I have to do is figure out where the heck to get the bells.

Anyway, have you ever tried it? What’s been your experience? Want to join me on my journey?

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Night of Baking my Hair

Oh, what an exciting Friday night! Watching The Dark Knight with the hubby (only after I begged him to switch from golf *insert glassy eyes*) and baking my hair. Well, not exactly baking. But I am seated underneath a heating cap with a mixture of eggs, mayo and olive oil slathered all over my hair, and furiously wiping my neck because the heat is causing this concoction to drip. *SMH* The things we do for beauty.

Natural beauty is time consuming, but lots of fun. I’m excited to embrace my inner natural chemist now that I have all these oils, gels, and butters. I just have to remember I promised hubby that I wouldn’t melt, set on fire, or blow up anything in the house. As if I don’t know what I’m doing. He’s such a worrywart. 🙂

Some random pics for your enjoyment.

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Quarterly State Tax Deadline for Small Business Owners

Dear New York State Department of Taxation and Finance,

While I can appreciate that your team is hard at work penalizing small business owners like me who have a hard time sticking to your quarterly tax deadlines, that still doesn’t excuse the 50-minute wait to speak to a human being.

Contrary to your automated message, my call is obviously NOT that important to you.

Yours,

One of the many peons trying to carve out a piece of the American Dream

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Proverbs 16:33

“We may throw the dice, but the Lord determines how they fall.” – tweeted by @GodPleasingLife

 

 

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Ron Burgundy: It’s so damn hot… milk was a bad choice.

Nothing else I can say.

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America’s Most Scenic Roads

For someone who doesn’t drive, I really, really, REALLY love road trips. It doesn’t matter how short or how long. I love the freedom of just going and stopping whenever the  mood strikes. Not to mention the people I meet on those stops. Oooh lawdy.

As such, I was excited to see Yahoo!’s America’s Most Scenic Roads article today. Enjoy!


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‘Going Natural’ Requires Lots of Help

I was pleasantly surprised to see today’s New York Times article on the Team Natural Hair movement. To quote Florence the maid, from the first episode of The Jeffersons as she notices how wealthy Louise and Helen are, “How come we overcame and no one told me?” HI-LARIOUS!

Anyway, since I’m on that natural train, I could relate to the ladies profiled in the article and can co-sign on a number of the difficulties they’ve noted.

Also nice is seeing one of my favorite sites, CurlyNikki.com, featured.

The article for your enjoyment.

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Natural Hair Regimen

Thank you so much to Dominique at All Things O’Natural for the template to create a formalized regimen for my hair. Please feel free to use mine and link back to this page.

Daily (Every Other Day) Regimen:

  • DRINK LOTS OF WATER: It makes sense that you should hydrate your insides as well as your outside. I try to drink the recommended 64 ounces (8 cups) a day. I usually do 48 ounces (6 cups. I’m pretty sure. Don’t rely on my math.) of plain water and the rest (actually I do more than that) as unsweetened decaf green tea.
  • Scalp Massage for Hair Growth: I found a specific concoction on livecurly.com. They don’t say it guarantees hair growth, but it’s worth a try. I’ll adjust as needed.
  • Moisturize: I use a spray bottle with a water/oil concoction to keep my hair moisturize. I only spritz when I’m re-braiding/twisting so I don’t lose my defined curls and end up with frizzy hair. I made up this recipe based on numerous posts that I saw on different natural/curly hair boards. I’m starting out with it but I’ll switch it up once a month to see what works best for my hair. I’ll probably keep the aloe vera gel or juice as a constant. Details below.
  • Moisturize 2: I’ll be using Alaffia Beautiful Curls Shea Butter Curl Activating Cream for Curly to Kinky Hair until the bottle finishes. I’m putting a rule in place that I won’t buy any new products until I’m finished with the old ones. Self-restraint don’t fail me now!
  • Twist: I’ve been flat twisting my hair – usually 8-10 braids.
  • Wrap: I wrap my hair with a satin scarf before I go to sleep.

Weekly Regimen:

  • Steps noted above: See the steps noted above.
  • Co Wash: Since I’m new to the co wash world, I’m choosing to do it only once a week to start with. I’ll monitor it and then decide if to increase the frequency. *Crap! Now I have “What’s the Frequency, Kenneth?” running through my head. Thanks a lot. Thanks.* Anyway, I’ll co wash using the Aubrey Organics Jojoba & Aloe Desert Herb Revitalizing Conditioner. I like it more than the shampoo, but not enough to buy it again when it’s done.
  • Detangler: I have ZERO patience and need all the help I can to make it easy to detangle my hair. I’ll be using a homemade recipe from livecurly.com. Details below.
  • Seal: I seal in my moisture using grape seed oil since it’s supposed to be lightweight. I don’t want anything too heavy weighing down my fine hair.
  • Style: I usually rock a protective style such as the two strand twist out. Because this style is so versatile, it is one of my favorite go to styles. I add a dime sized amount of the Alaffia Beautiful Curls Shea Butter Curl Activating Cream for Curly to Kinky Hair, and twist it up.
  • Moisture: Whenever I take my twists down, I usually didn’t use anything in it. Now I think I’ll use the Alaffia Beautiful Curls Shea Butter Curl Activating Cream for Curly to Kinky Hair to untwist my hair.

Twice a Month Regimen:

  • See Daily (Every Other Day) and most of Weekly Steps
  • Pre-Shampoo Oil Treatment (Pre-pooing): It’s a pre-treatment designed to moisturize the hair. It’s basically a deep treatment. See below for specifics.
  • Shampoo: Right now I’m using Aubrey Organics J.A.Y. Desert Herb Revitalizing Shampoo. I don’t personally like the way it makes my hair feel – stiff – but I’m going to keep using it until the bottle is finished. Hey, I’m not going to waste money. I’m hoping the pre-pooing will make a difference.
  • Protein Pack Deep Conditioning Treatment: My hair is ridiculously fragile. You just look at it sideways and it breaks. According to livecurly.com, some girls with curls, especially those with fine hair, have a tendency to become too over-moisturized with emollients and need additional protein treatments to restore the health of their hair. Specifics noted below.
  • Regular Conditioning: Like a dog in heat, I’ve been feening to try the Organix  Renewing Moroccan Argan Oil Conditioner. Can’t wait to make that happen.
  • Rinse: I read that you should rinse with warm water first to open the pores. I’ll see if it works. I’ll do a final rinse using cool water and ACV (Apple Cider Vinegar).

Monthly Regimen:

  • Deep Condition: My hair is ridiculously dry and damaged. I’m not sure which homemade recipe to use but I think I’ll do a Raw Honey treatment.
  • Trimming: I’ll go to a professional (bad idea to let me loose on my hair with scissors) to get rid of split ends. I’m too scared to do the big chop.

Other Methods I Hope to Use:

  • Ayurvedic: I’ll let the pros explain it. Click Ayurvedic  to learn more.
  • Henna: I’ll let the pros explain it. Click Henna  to learn more.

Recipes and Steps:

Essential Oil Blend for Hair Growth
Please note there is no guarantee this oil will stimulate hair growth in every individual. However, researchers from the Aberdeen Royal Infirmary in Scotland published a study of 86 individuals who used this oil for seven months and reported 44% of people in the treatment group had new hair growth compared to only 15% in the control group.

Combine:

3 drops cedarwood essential oil
3 drops lavender essential oil
3 drops lemon essential oil
3 drops rosemary essential oil
3 drops thyme essential oil
1/8 cup grapeseed oil
1/8 cup jojoba oil

Apply several drops of the mixture to areas of hair loss each night, massaging gently into the scalp for 3-5 minutes. Store oil tightly covered and keep away from heat and light.
Contraindications: avoid rosemary essential oil when pregnant. Cautions: citrus oils are photosensitive and should not be applied prior to sun exposure.

  • Spray Bottle Mix

Combine:

1.5 cups Organic aloe vera gel or juice
1 cup purified water
6 drops grape seed oil
10 drop sweet almond oil

  • Detangler
    Well-moisturized curly hair is virtually tangle-free, but this recipe can help with the tangles while you are in your re-hydration process. You can keep this in a spray bottle and spray it on in the shower to help detangle your hair while cleansing and conditioning:

Combine:

1 teaspoon aloe vera gel
1/2 teaspoon grapefruit seed extract
2 drops grapefruit essential oil
2 drops glycerin
8 ounces purified water

Mix together in a spray bottle and keep in the shower. Spray lightly to help detangle hair.
Cautions: citrus oils are photosensitive and should not be applied prior to sun exposure.

Step 1: Using your fingers, divide your hair into 4-6 sections.

Step 2: Apply a heavy coating of pure coconut, olive, or avocado oil throughout each section. Make sure to put oil on every layer of your hair. Use 4-6 tablespoons depending on your hair length and strand thickness.

Step 3: Cover your hair with a plastic cap to keep the oil from dripping down your face and neck.

Step 4: Leave the oil on your hair for 1 hour. Some say it’s better to keep the oil on longer (even overnight), but you’ll have to decide for yourself. You can try different lengths of time to see if your hair feels better after longer treatments.

Step 5: Before you shower, comb your hair out with your fingers to remove tangles or knots.

Step 6: Wash and condition your hair according to these instructions.

Step 7: Be consistent. Do a Pre-Shampoo Oil Treatment before every shampoo.

Some girls with curls, especially those with fine hair, have a tendency to become too over-moisturized with emollients and need additional protein treatments to restore the health of their hair. This is also helpful for lightened (bleached) hair that has not been properly reconstructed after the chemical service:

Combine:

1 egg, beaten
1 tablespoon mayonnaise (the full fat kind, not the reduced fat)
2 teaspoons olive oil

Massage well into hair from scalp to ends, then cover with a plastic processing cap. Process for one hour at room temperature, then cleanse hair with a non-sulfate cleanser. For added penetration, sit under a warm (not hot) dryer for 30 minutes.

Combine:

The ratio is 3 TSP of ACV to 2 cups of water.

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Rep. Anthony Weiner admits lying about lewd photo.

If you’ve been living under a rock the last few days, Rep. Anthony Weiner repeatedly denied sending a lewd photo of his underwear-clad crotch to a young woman over Twitter. He claimed that his account was hacked.

I’m jaded and don’t trust a word out of any politician’s mouth, but I wanted to believe him. I really, truly did. As someone who works with teens, it’s getting more and more difficult to talk to them about responsibility, moral decency, and appropriate behavior when “respected” adults in the public eye violate all those principles.

Sickening.

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